THE PUSSIFICATION OF THE AVERAGE MALE.

STARK TITLE, I KNOW, BUT THERE IS A GROWING TREND TOWARD THE DECIMATION OF THE IDEA OF THE MALE AND WHAT EXACTLY REPRESENTS THE MODERN MAN.  I HAVE PERSONALLY NOTICED A SLOW TREND, THAT IS CAUSING CONFUSION AMONG YOUNG MEN, AND HAS THEM QUESTIONING NOT ONLY THEIR PLACE, BUT ALSO, THEIR MANHOOD.  AS I GREW INTO A MAN, I SLOWLY BEGAN TO EXPERIENCE THIS AS WELL.  IT IS AN IDEA, BASED ON THE MYTH, THAT MEN ARE INHERENTLY EVIL.  WHEN I SAY MEN, I DON'T MEAN MANKIND IN GENERAL, BUT, THE MALE COUNTERPART OF THE SPECIES SPECIFICALLY.  THIS IS CAN BE CRUCIALLY HARMFUL TO THE AVERAGE YOUNG MALE, GROWING UP IN A SOCIETY THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE PROGRESSIVE TOWARD THE INDIVIDUAL, AND INDIVIDUAL FREEDOMS.  IT IS BAD ENOUGH, THAT THE AVERAGE MALE HAS AN ISSUE WITH MANHOOD IN THE FIRST PLACE, BUT, TO BE "PUT ON WATCH", SO TO SPEAK, IS PRETTY DAMN RIDICULOUS IN MY OPINION.  THE IDEA, THAT IS BEING THRUST INTO THE NATIONAL STAGE, IS THAT EVERY AMERICAN MALE, IS A POTENTIAL MURDERER, RAPIST, ABUSER, ETC. WHICH I SIMPLY REFUSE TO ACCEPT.  THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A MAN, BY ANY STRETCH.  THIS IDEA, THAT A MAN HAS TO BEND HIS MANHOOD TO THE IDEALISM OF PROGRESSION TO MAKE HIMSELF MORE APPLICABLE TO SOCIETY, IS AN EXERCISE IN THE STIFLING OF FREEDOM, ON EVERY LEVEL.

MEN, ON THE WHOLE, THROUGHOUT HISTORY HAVE BEEN OPPRESSIVE, NOT ONLY TO EACH OTHER, BUT TO WOMEN AND PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING ELSE IN THIS WORLD....SO, I AM NOT OBLIVIOUS AS TO WHERE THE IDEA STEMS FROM.  I GET IT.  HOWEVER, TO FEEL THAT IT'S NECESSARY TO BREAK A MAN, OR RESTRUCTURE A MAN, TO MAKE HIM MORE APPROPRIATE FOR SOCIETY, IS HARMFUL IN MY OPINION.  THE WORLD NEEDS MEN.  THE WORLD NEEDS THE MALE MENTALITY, FREE FROM FEMALE OPPOSITION.  I MEAN, C'MON, THE SUBJUGATION OF THE MALE THOUGHT PROCESS IS ALMOST COMPLETELY FEMALE DRIVEN.  THEREFORE, TO CONSISTENTLY CURB MASCULINITY, WITH A MANDATORY FEMININE LAYER, CAN ONLY BECOME DETRIMENTAL TO THE OVERALL IDEA OF WHAT MEN ARE.  I UNDERSTAND, THAT A MAN SHOULD BE LESS VIOLENT, LESS OPPRESSIVE, LESS DOMINEERING, AND MORE ACCEPTING AND UNDERSTANDING, BUT, THAT IS A HUMAN LESSON, THAT NEEDS TO BE TAUGHT.  I DON'T CONDONE CERTAIN TYPES OF MALE BEHAVIOR, ESPECIALLY OPPRESSIVE BEHAVIOR TOWARD EACH OTHER, TO WOMEN, CHILDREN, ANIMALS ETC.  I SEE THIS AS, UNNECESSARY IN A CIVILIZED SOCIETY.

THIS CALLS INTO QUESTION AS TO WHAT EXACTLY IS A MAN.  MEN, WERE ONCE CONSIDERED TO BE STRONG AND SILENT.  SOMEWHAT, INSENSITIVE AND INTENSE, BECAUSE, MEN ARE DIFFERENT THAN WOMEN.  MEN ARE MORE LIKELY, TO DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY THAN WOMEN.  NOW, THERE ARE PARTS, THAT MAKE US BOTH HUMAN, BUT, WE HAVE DIFFERENT ACTIONS, REACTIONS, OPINIONS, RESPONSES, IDEAS, AND HAVE DIFFERENT REQUIREMENTS, BECAUSE ARE TWO DIFFERENT SIDES OF THE SAME COIN.  NOW, MEN HAVE GONE THRU SO MANY CHANGES IN JUST MY LIFETIME ALONE, AND I MYSELF, HAVE BEEN SUBJUGATED INTO BELIEVING THAT MEN ARE SHIT, UNNECESSARY AND SOMEWHAT USELESS, EXCEPT FOR THE PENIS, AND EVEN THEN, THAT'S NOT COMPLETELY NECESSARY.  GROWING UP, I WAS UNSURE ON WHAT IT WAS TO BECOME A MAN, AND I WASN'T PARTICULARLY CLOSE TO MY FATHER.  I DIDN'T REALLY HAVE A MALE FIGURE, THAT I COULD MIMIC OR CONVERSE WITH AND FIND OUT WHAT BEING A MAN IS ALL ABOUT.  THIS LED TO ME BEING, VERY SELF-CONSCIOUS AND CLOSER TO MY MOTHER, WHICH ALSO MADE ME VERY SENSITIVE.  AS I GREW,  I HAD A HARD TIME BEING A MAN, BECAUSE, I DID NOT UNDERSTAND THE INDIVIDUALITY OF MANHOOD.  THIS IS THE MOST CRUCIAL LESSON, OF MANHOOD.  BEING ALONE, TO FIND THE MAN WITHIN.  I WAS CONSTANTLY LOOKING, FOR THE WOMAN, TO "PSYCHOLOGICALLY" REPLACE MY MOTHER, BECAUSE, I COULDN'T TAKE MY FATHER'S PLACE.  THE WEIGHT WAS TOO MUCH, FOR SOMEONE, WHO COULDN'T UNDERSTAND MANHOOD.  I DID NOT KNOW THIS, AND ENDED UP IN THE WRONG RELATIONSHIPS, AND BEING SUBJUGATED TO CHANGING MY MALENESS TO SUIT THE FEMALE MAKEUP, AND IT CAUSED FRUSTRATION WITHIN ME.  TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, IT DIDN'T MERELY OCCUR IN MY RELATIONSHIPS, BUT, ALSO IN MY WORKPLACE, AND ALSO IN SOCIAL CIRCLES.  I CONSTANTLY FELT, LIKE I HAD TO FIT IN, NOT ONLY WITH MEN, BUT WOMEN, AS WELL.

WHAT HAVE I LEARNED AT THIS AGE?  ONLY A MAN CAN DETERMINE, WHAT A MAN IS....AND ISN'T.  THE BEST PLACE FOR A YOUNG MALE, TO LEARN TO BE A MAN IS FROM HIS FATHER, OR EQUAL MALE FIGURE HEAD.  BE ALONE WHEN IT'S TIME TO BE ALONE, BECAUSE THIS IS ESSENTIAL TO QUELL THE BAD HABITS OF MEN.  STOP CHASING PUSSY AND LEARN TO STOP MAKING WOMEN THE FOREFRONT OF YOUR EXISTENCE.  BE A MAN, GRAB YOUR JUNK AND SPIT, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.  FASHION AND FUNCTION ARE TWO TOTALLY SEPARATE THINGS, ONE IS DRIVEN BY NEED, AND ONE IS DRIVEN BY THE DESIRE FOR PUSSY.  DEVELOP PRINCIPLES, THAT YOU DO NOT SWAY ON.  THESE PRINCIPLES HELP YOU TO UNDERSTAND, WHO YOU ARE AT YOUR CORE AND GIVE YOU A BETTER GAUGE, AS TO WHAT YOU WILL AND WON'T TOLERATE IN OTHERS.  YOU ARE NOT, THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE, SO YOU CANNOT BE SELFISH OR OPPRESSIVE, BUT LEARN TO UNDERSTAND THE WORLD AROUND YOU, SO YOU CAN BE THE RIGHT KIND OF MAN.  YOU ARE NOT A PRISONER OF YOUR EMOTIONS.  YOUR EGO IS YOUR WORST ENEMY.  YOU DON'T HAVE TO TAILOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE TO SUIT A WOMAN.  IF YOU HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT KIND OF WOMAN, SHE IS GOING TO ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.  INSENSITIVITY, IS A RESULT OF HAVING A DIFFERENT KIND OF THOUGHT PROCESS THAN A WOMAN AND NOT, BECAUSE YOU ARE AN ARROGANT MALE.

I COULD GO ON, BUT, I'LL STOP THERE FOR NOW.  THE AVERAGE YOUNG MAN IS SLOWLY BEING CONTROLLED AND TURNED INTO THE VERY THING, HE IS CHASING, BECAUSE HE THINKS IT SHOULD SOMEHOW MAKE HIM A BETTER COMPANION.  THIS POPULARIZED IDEA, IS ONLY GOING TO BE DETRIMENTAL TO WOMEN OVER TIME, BECAUSE, YOU ARE BASICALLY DIMINISHING THE OTHER HALF OF YOUR SPECIES.  OR, MAYBE THAT'S THE POINT, CHICKS WITH DICKS.  IS THIS THE NEXT EVOLUTION?  A SLEW OF, SORT OF METRO-SEXUAL MEN, ON THE VERGE OF BEING GAY, BUT, NOT, BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO PRO-CREATE?  ARE MEN BEING PHASED OUT?  MEN, ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE DOMINATED OR CONTROLLED, THIS IS WHY MEN HAVE AGGRESSIVE NATURES SOMETIMES.  SO, IN ORDER TO CONTROL A MAN, THE USE OF PUSSY COMES INTO PLAY TO ENSLAVE HIM, AND THEN ONCE THIS IS ACCOMPLISHED, HE IS TOLD THAT ONLY WAY HE CAN GET MORE PUSSY, IS TO CHANGE HIS WAYS?  DID I GET THAT RIGHT?  UNTIL HE BECOMES A PUSSY HIMSELF, AND THEN THERE'S NO USE FOR HIM AFTER THAT, BECAUSE LESBIANS ALREADY EXIST, AND PROCREATION IS SCIENTIFIC NOW.  YEAH, MAYBE WE ARE BEING PHASED OUT. 

I TELL MY SON, AND OTHER MEN, AROUND ME ALL TIME BE A MAN, AND I TRY TO ADVISE MEN ON BEING THE RIGHT KIND OF MAN, BECAUSE, I LIKE BEING A MAN....MY VERSION OF A MAN, THAT I LEARNED TO BE....IT IS MY RIGHT, AND NO ONE CAN OPPRESS ME INTO CHANGING FOR THEIR COMFORT, NOT EVEN A WOMAN.    - 925